My Latin Flame

Reply to Questionnaire

For each question, respond with one of the following choices:

St.A. = Strongly Agree;
Sl.A. = Slightly Agree;
I = Indifferent;
Sl.D. = Slightly Disagree;
St.D. = Strongly Disagree.

I Financial Questions

1) A man’s earnings must be sufficiently high to support a wife and children before he searches for a foreign wife.

2) Having lots of money is very important to me

3) Whoever earns the money in a family has the right to spend it any way he or she wants.

4) It is primarily the man’s responsibility to provide for the material needs of his wife and family.

5) A man’s financial responsibility to his family includes avoiding heavy debt.

6) To earn money to support his family, a man should accept a low status job right away rather than wait to land a high status job.

7) A non-working spouse deserves some of his or her own spending money.

8) It is acceptable for a man to steal or cheat to get money for his family if they need it badly enough.

9) I need to have full control over my family’s finances.

10) It is entirely the wife’s responsibility to financially help her family in her country.

11) I will become extremely angry if my spouse wastes my hard-earned money.

12) I enjoy playing the lottery or gambling with my money.

13) I prefer that my spouse earn less money than be away from me and our children all the time working.

14) I would hide money from my spouse so I could spend it on what I want.

15) Making a budget and sticking to it is very important in managing a family’s finances.

II Lifestyle Questions

1) I prefer to go to bed early at night and get up early in the morning.

2) For me, having fun means getting good and drunk.

3) When I don’t have to leave the house, I prefer to not bathe and wear old, dirty clothes.

4) I enjoy going out with my spouse to movies, restaurants, the beach, and to friends’ houses.

5) I have used drugs like marijuana and am comfortable with occasional drug use by my spouse.

6) I enjoy a clean house and work hard at keeping my house and yard clean and presentable.

7) At home, I enjoy spending lots of time watching television, surfing the Web, and listening to music.

8) I enjoy a tidy, organized house and work hard to keep everything in its place.

9) I enjoy spending lots of time sharing my feeling and cuddling with my spouse.

10) I will get very annoyed and angry if my spouse is not as tidy and organized as I am.

III Personal Values Questions

1) It is important to me to impress others by showing off lots of expensive possessions.

2) Emotional infidelity by my spouse will make me want to end the relationship.

3) I believe that to keep the peace in a relationship, it is acceptable to lie to and mislead my spouse, rather than tell the complete truth.

4) I need to get my way all the time and will use threats of revenge or even violence to get my spouse to do what I want.

5) I would continue to date a person who is not marriage material for me in order to keep receiving gifts and money from that person.

6) I believe it is acceptable, and not being unfaithful, for one spouse to go outside the relationship when the other spouse refuses to fulfill his or her conjugal duties.

7) I need to get my way all the time and will use deceit and threats of lying to authorities to get my spouse to do what I want.

8) I would continue to date a person who is not marriage material for me in order to keep having sex that person.

9) I could, and would, marry a person I didn’t love if there were enough other benefits to the marriage.

10) Deep down, the opposite sex is just not trustworthy.

IV Demographic and Appearance Questions

1) An age difference of more than 10 years between spouses does not bother me

2) It is important to me that my spouse dress well almost all of the time.

3) A short man or a tall woman is still physically attractive to me.

4) It is important to me that my spouse have nice, neat hair and well manicured hands.

5) I am much less attracted to a person who is more than 10 kilos overweight.

6) It is important to me that my spouse be the same race as me.

7) I will not start a relationship with someone who is not in excellent physical and mental health.

8) It is important to me that my spouse practice the same religion as me.

9) I am still attracted to a potential mate who already has 1 or 2 children.

10) It is important to me that a potential mate be able to communicate with me in my language.

V Sexual Questions

1) Sex is a very important part of married life for me.

2) I enjoy sharing my sexual fantasies and sexual dreams with my spouse.

3) I would like to have sex with my spouse very often, say 1 or 2 times a day, every day.

4) I enjoy watching erotic movies and looking at pornography.

5) I enjoy most sexual acts; specifically, oral sex.

6) I enjoy playing sexual games and using sex toys with my spouse.

7) It is important to me that my spouse have a sexy body and keep it in shape.

8) Sometimes I have difficulty becoming sexually excited.

9) Sexual infidelity by my spouse will make me want to end the relationship.

10) I enjoy most sexual acts; specifically, anal sex.

11) I am willing to have cosmetic surgery to make myself more sexually attractive to my spouse.

12) I enjoy most sexual acts; specifically, having a third person watch or participate..

13) If my spouse was regularly unable to meet my sexual needs, I would feel the need to be unfaithful.

14) I am willing to accommodate almost all of my spouse’s sexual desires because I enjoy making and seeing my spouse happy.

15) I feel it is acceptable to withhold sex from my spouse in order to get him or her to do what I want.